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This writer seeks Ikigai- a life surrounded by meaning and spurred on by purpose. To exist without labels and labelling, to be confined yet free, to amplify each dimensions of existence. Outside this curated persona, I love to travel, hope to speak at Tedx one day and seek to deploy legality as a tool of social engineering.
JOURNALS OF THOUGHTS

Life in Progress (LIP)

September 25, 2026September 25, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Say hello to yourself. You are still here. I remember that sometime last year, I couldn't reach a friend for a while; we kept missing each other's calls. Turned out she was going through a life-changing process, as I was, and we just laughed it off when we shared the news of our coincidences. Another… Continue reading Life in Progress (LIP)

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When Miracles become Administrative

September 11, 2026September 11, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Zorica Stevic The things I want to do and feel, I find myself doing just the opposite. Especially that which I know I ought not do. I was scrolling through IG when I encountered the phrase "miracles become Administrative" and it struck me how relatable this was. As humans if nothing else, we adapt to… Continue reading When Miracles become Administrative

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WHAT IF LIFE WAS A FAIRYTALE?

August 28, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Artist unknown I am sure no one has escaped the saying "life is not a bed of roses", true, but what if it were? What does that even mean? Honestly, never mind this chain of thought; I want to ramble on about...my point is, what if life is the exact opposite of what we think… Continue reading WHAT IF LIFE WAS A FAIRYTALE?

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The Mercy of the End

August 21, 2026August 21, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Artist unknown Fine lines to wrinkles. Not all of us gets the curved lines but we will all get the flat line. A day to start but the end is already scripted just other actors are aware. The actor on stage will take a bow and only when the curtain falls will he know that… Continue reading The Mercy of the End

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VALIDATION

August 7, 2026August 7, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Artist unknown What we all want, what we may need but can definitely live without. A plethora of individuals live life with the notion of an existent 'them" serving as jury for their every move. Funny enough, we are so blindsided by that reality that we can't even tell that all we're focused on is… Continue reading VALIDATION

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On deconstructing advise

July 31, 2026July 31, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Hessam Abrishami I grew up hearing it repeated like some sort of intellectual mantra of sagacity, 'the devil you know is better than the angel you do not know.' I have repeated this phrase to myself a couple of times at decision crossroads and saying this sort of gave me the courage I needed to… Continue reading On deconstructing advise

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Living with Suffering

July 24, 2026July 24, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Painting by Marie Alexander What does suffering really mean? Is it decipherable, or is it an experiential concept? When you say 'I am suffering', I think what immediately comes to mind is an absence, for example, to suffer from sickness and pain or financial or material lack. No one thinks of suffering, at least not… Continue reading Living with Suffering

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ABUJA

July 10, 2026July 10, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Adapted from Pinterest I remember entering Abuja for the first time at night, all alone in a new city, heading to meet a family at the outskirts. I remember thinking it had a presence I couldn't fathom. A fortress and an intrigue. Like a refuge as well as a threat. I loved that I could… Continue reading ABUJA

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Savour

July 3, 2026July 3, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Artist unknown Have you found yourself struggling not to sleep? I mean, you are tired and should sleep, kind of struggle, but you want to do so many things you enjoy, and you have limited time as an adult to achieve them. This is especially true when you want to finish a series or a… Continue reading Savour

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A different Kind of Loving

June 26, 2026June 26, 2026 Dcconnoisseur

Hamza Bin Muhammed Hey, you, let me ask you a question: when did you realise that you are an adult? Like the actual moment when you felt grown-up? Also, isn't it ludicrous that reality is not the same for everyone, except for constants like birth and death; everything else in between is variable and yet… Continue reading A different Kind of Loving

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