Hamza Bin Muhammed Hey, you, let me ask you a question: when did you realise that you are an adult? Like the actual moment when you felt grown-up? Also, isn't it ludicrous that reality is not the same for everyone, except for constants like birth and death; everything else in between is variable and yet… Continue reading A different Kind of Loving
Reacting
Artist unknown It is a regular day, and I am scrolling through LinkedIn when I encounter a post on emotional intelligence based on a video of a toddler (boy) who was hit with a stick by another toddler (female). He expressed his hurt, crouched to pick up the stick, and raised it to hit the… Continue reading Reacting
Tricklets
Painting by Inamraja Everyone contributes from goodness, but not all goodness measures up. We have all interacted with that feeling, doing all the best you know how to and still falling short. Trying all the hacks, making all the right efforts, growing, expanding, being positive, seeking help, accepting help, trying and trying again, yet nothing… Continue reading Tricklets
Romanticizing Bullshit
Image by Cypher This post is inspired by a conversation with a friend, but it is deeply connected to doors in my life I have to force shut. Basically, if you need a wake-up call, here's your alarm... I am sure you have heard the phrase 'let's stay friends' from someone you once thought you'd… Continue reading Romanticizing Bullshit
As it should be
Leroy Campbell I have a theory, we often take the people closest to us for granted because it is hard as humans to consistently be in the right frame of mind. To constantly sustain gratitude, love, and devotion. Why? Other emotions get in the way: anger, frustration, weariness. I watched this series where a super-talented… Continue reading As it should be
Beautiful Men
Valeria Simantovskaya They look like God's favourites on a warm summer morning and the next best thing since sliced bread.... When women are beautiful, it is expected because everyone knows that they were created with aesthetics in mind, but when men are beautiful, it feels like some sort of higher elements at play, like some… Continue reading Beautiful Men
Love stories end
Art by Seema I know you have heard the question over and over again, but indulge me one more time: " Is love all a relationship needs to survive?' The simple answer is the obvious one. Nope. Love is not enough, but it makes all the difference whether you get the love you need or… Continue reading Love stories end
Letting go is not the same thing as forgetting
Noir reverers There are several memories we'd be happy to let go of and forget, but it is not always that simple. You know why? It is all about grief. The thing about grief is, I mean, different kinds of grief is the connection to the central idea - loss. This loss may be temporary… Continue reading Letting go is not the same thing as forgetting
DICHOTOMY
Art by Seema I was having a conversation with a friend where he made it abundantly clear to me that he does not subscribe to the politics of another friend of mine, and frankly, was surprised that I got along so well with that person because it must mean that, in some ways, I agreed… Continue reading DICHOTOMY
Learning to live for Joy
Sampad Art Gallery If you ask anyone, what is a common pursuit we all imitate? The answer will likely be, the pursuit of happiness, from different directions, but technically the same destination. In this pursuit, we are well aware that happiness is not what we need. In fact, more often than not, to be happy,… Continue reading Learning to live for Joy
