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Wavering

October 17, 2025October 17, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Painting by Ndmakoni Do you randomly stumble on a memory and then try to follow up on it? It happened to me today. I remembered a childhood radio presenter that died from sickle cell complications and I just wanted to see her somehow again. I got curious about the husband she left behind, if he… Continue reading Wavering

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The misconception of “see finish”

October 10, 2025October 17, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Painting by Adiel Katz "See finish" is a Nigerian colloquial used especially in romantic relationships to depict a state of closeness to one's partner such that disrespect is almost common place. It is said, "the closer you get to something, the harder it is to see it". These days almost everyone has a channel that… Continue reading The misconception of “see finish”

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This kind of picture

September 26, 2025September 26, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Artist: Marie Alexander Every time I tried to draw a perfect picture I came back short. I stare and stare but all the flaws just become real. Do you know what I fear? That I may never attain that which I think I should be because that which I am is exactly as I ought.… Continue reading This kind of picture

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On being pretty

September 19, 2025September 19, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Artist: Unknown Have you ever wondered if you'd be outstoundingly beautiful if you suddenly acquired the features of everyone you have admired no matter their origin? Changing countries, I thought one of the first things I'd write about is the diversity I was forced to interact with but surprisingly, I was rather preoccupied with trying… Continue reading On being pretty

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Sensory

September 12, 2025September 12, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Art by Carlos Fama I am in the middle of nowhere or maybe I want to think that I am in the middle of nowhere. Can you ever be alone in this world with so many billions of people? That's besides the point. Right now, I am in the middle of nowhere because that's where… Continue reading Sensory

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In search of Spark

September 5, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Tommy Mitchell She misses the girl she was. She did not know she was gone until she found herself staring at a picture of what she used to look like. Unguarded smile, bright eyes potraying hope, clarity, and vision. How it seemed  she believed everything was possible. Where did she go? She remembers having a… Continue reading In search of Spark

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What do men bring to the table?

August 29, 2025August 29, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Artist unknown Even though this title presents as though I am going to detail an in depth analysis of what men have to offer in human interaction and intimate relationships, I must confess that I just want to describe what I like about men. Okay, me and a fraction of other females. First, let´s talk… Continue reading What do men bring to the table?

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Her Mother’s Daughter

August 22, 2025August 22, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Artist: ik_nnadiarts I am my mother's daughter. Do you know what that means? It means that I have spent countless moments wondering if she liked me. If she might have been the one who birthed me. It means I spent numerous days comparing myself to her and all the ways I hope never to be… Continue reading Her Mother’s Daughter

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SHADES OF MEMORIES

SAY GOODBYE

August 15, 2025August 15, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Artist unknown Acceptance is the hardest thing yet, it brings the easiest result. I had a friend who I esteemed so much. I was ready to be there for her when she needed me and even when she didn't. She never calls, she never checks up on me except when she needs someone to unburden… Continue reading SAY GOODBYE

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My grass is green enough

August 8, 2025August 8, 2025 Dcconnoisseur

Artist unknown In pursuit of better, you'll constantly find yourself reaching for the next best thing. Life always seems to be happening in the future instead of right now where you find yourself. Sometimes, it is not even about being greedy or being ambitious, it may just be not knowing how to stop either out… Continue reading My grass is green enough

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