Category: SHADES OF MEMORIES

It's 2022, and like every other new year, there are resolutions flying around mingled with the greeting Happy New Year! For some reason, it is like we blinked from 2019, Covid happened and voila! We are in 2022. It feels so surreal because for most, life has been about redefining work, family, health, and relationships.I… Continue reading New Year, New Me?

How do you even do it? Yes, you. How do you settle for less? He promises himself physically but not his life. His purse but not his heart.

Hey, it's me again guys. Of course, you know me on this lane. Don't pretend you don't🙄. Remember the last time I waved at self sabotage and had a party with self pity? Well, yeah, it wasn't my best moment but er... it happened and here we are today on another episode on self depreciation.… Continue reading SELF DEPRECIATION

I am only human... I can't be expected to live right I am only human I can't be expected to be perfect Everyone has a skeleton in their cupboard... No one is a saint. I am only human... Don't you know men are wired to cheat? Women cheat too...nobody is pure. Where was this clause… Continue reading I AM ONLY HUMAN

I watch from afar. I am the stranger behind the screen watching their love story on the gram. They look so happy. #Godwhen. Then I see other stories, the rants, the lies, and betrayal.I don't even get a moment to process the happiness I just scrolled past. The very next post is about a crumbling… Continue reading NUPTIAL BLISS?

If you remember the popular song on Instagram or tik tok... LEAVE ME ALONE, PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE (repeat). I resonate with it a lot, but not in the comic sense that it presents in those videos. It is with heavy heart I type this... I am female and some things happen to me by… Continue reading LEAVE ME ALONE!!!

I know....🙄 When you read wellness books like Think like a Monk by Jay shetty, one is advised to stay away from negative emotions like being a complainer. I don't know if what I am about to write falls under this category. If it does...in my defense, I am a work in progress. Back to… Continue reading No Title: This is a Rant!

I am too scared to try Why is that cowardice? Why is it not bravery to choose familiar and comfortable? Must I walk the unknown? I am sorry I don't want to ask questions like is God real? Is God an endorser of evil? I don't want to know if I may or may not… Continue reading CREATING BOUNDARIES

I am me. Of course this should make sense since no one is disputing this fact. Yet, I find myself in a quandry where subconsciously I am trying to identify myself by standards set out with conformity in mind. More often than not, when I look in the societal mirror, I stand out and this… Continue reading I AM NO ONE

I know what it is like to take a wrong turn and be plunged into the darkness believing that light can never find you. Trust me, it will, keep pushing... It eventually opens up. Maybe it is because you get used to the dark and eventually start to see better... or maybe because light exist… Continue reading LIGHT GUIDE