Author: Dcconnoisseur

I don't know if you are like me who struggle to keep it together becauseyou have pledged allegiance to happiness, but some days the pressure you didn't even know was building up suddenly overwhelms you and your high spirits come crashing down. It often starts with this simple thought; What is the point of all… Continue reading THE SPACE BETWEEN US: A FLOATING GUIDE INTO THE UNKNOWN

Some days I think I have finally figured it out, everything that makes me a better human. In these days that I feel great about my humanity, it reflects on every iota of perspective I share. I speak as one who has finally reached equilibrium in spirit and as one long past the pitfall of… Continue reading IT’S OKAY TO NOT BE OKAY

Maybe you were not meant to have an easy life and that explains all the dark tunnels you've had to fumble your way out of. How it always seems that you are constantly reaching but never attaining Like your baggage is a ton more weighty than gravity can defy. It seems like you always have… Continue reading IN THE UPROAR

I don't know why it started or when, but I know that recently, it has been amplified. In case you don't follow, this is all about physique. I am a slim, petite lady with a lot of bones to show. I have maintained a certain kilogram since I was old enough to recognize myself. Why… Continue reading MY COLLAR BONE

We all have fears...the kind that enslaves us, frees us in a form of cage yes, the irony is that fear can be freeing. It will be easier to understand this, if we can grasp that fear frees us from the responsibility of courage. We have fear of failure, of love, of being mediocre, of… Continue reading JOURNEYING INTO FEAR

You know how we transfer aggression, it turns out that's not the only emotion we can transfer. If transferring aggression is an internal deficiency, how would one diagnose projecting other people's problems as one's own because of empathy? This post is about understanding how and when to isolate issues that are affecting us from others.… Continue reading ANTICIPATORY ANXIETY

Disclaimer: This is going to be one goofy write up. You have been warned. I have been feeling this very serious side of me brewing for days like I am trying to find a way to write one intense, life changing, revolutionary expose but I haven't been able to tap into that yet. In the… Continue reading ANTI ROMANCE?

I want to approach this from the female perspective of what an archetype man should be. You see, generally, men are taught to be leaders, protectors and providers. To achieve this, they have to be wise beyond their years, smart, earn six figures and have a great body. Errr.... this is not usually what happens.… Continue reading MAN ENOUGH

There is argument on which accent is the sexiest in the world today. Well, I am not getting into that. All I know is, some type of accents just makes you quiver with passion. Ok, I am being too dramatic🙄. I heard one guy call fayrouz with a French accent the other day and suddenly,… Continue reading HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT AN ACCENT?

Rose colored glasses won't matter, if there weren't eyes to look through it. I guess my point is; the beauty of perspective is in the diversity it portrays . What happens if we discover that what we think we know about some other person, is actually a reflection of our inner conflict? A large percentage… Continue reading Projected Emotions