Author: Dcconnoisseur

Is it strength to get back up when life knocks you down? I don't know whether it is strength or weakness, all I know is that either way, remaining knocked down or fighting back requires action and each action requires one's participation. I was conversing with someone about moving on one time; when the person… Continue reading STAYING DOWN

The first time I remember truly falling in love, it was looking into a pair of brown eyes. Of course you guessed right, it ended in premium tears but that's not what this expose is about... on second thought, let me give you a back story on how I came to be in this place… Continue reading REVERED

Have you ever found yourself slipping to a place you've promised yourself you wouldn't visit any time soon because the last time you were on the block things got messed up pretty fast? Well, been there, done that, and it still isn't pleasant. For me it usually starts with a conversation I promise myself not… Continue reading THE SPACE BETWEEN US: ACTUALLY YOU AND ME

I don't know if you are like me who struggle to keep it together becauseyou have pledged allegiance to happiness, but some days the pressure you didn't even know was building up suddenly overwhelms you and your high spirits come crashing down. It often starts with this simple thought; What is the point of all… Continue reading THE SPACE BETWEEN US: A FLOATING GUIDE INTO THE UNKNOWN

Some days I think I have finally figured it out, everything that makes me a better human. In these days that I feel great about my humanity, it reflects on every iota of perspective I share. I speak as one who has finally reached equilibrium in spirit and as one long past the pitfall of… Continue reading IT’S OKAY TO NOT BE OKAY

Maybe you were not meant to have an easy life and that explains all the dark tunnels you've had to fumble your way out of. How it always seems that you are constantly reaching but never attaining Like your baggage is a ton more weighty than gravity can defy. It seems like you always have… Continue reading IN THE UPROAR

I don't know why it started or when, but I know that recently, it has been amplified. In case you don't follow, this is all about physique. I am a slim, petite lady with a lot of bones to show. I have maintained a certain kilogram since I was old enough to recognize myself. Why… Continue reading MY COLLAR BONE

We all have fears...the kind that enslaves us, frees us in a form of cage yes, the irony is that fear can be freeing. It will be easier to understand this, if we can grasp that fear frees us from the responsibility of courage. We have fear of failure, of love, of being mediocre, of… Continue reading JOURNEYING INTO FEAR

You know how we transfer aggression, it turns out that's not the only emotion we can transfer. If transferring aggression is an internal deficiency, how would one diagnose projecting other people's problems as one's own because of empathy? This post is about understanding how and when to isolate issues that are affecting us from others.… Continue reading ANTICIPATORY ANXIETY

Disclaimer: This is going to be one goofy write up. You have been warned. I have been feeling this very serious side of me brewing for days like I am trying to find a way to write one intense, life changing, revolutionary expose but I haven't been able to tap into that yet. In the… Continue reading ANTI ROMANCE?