Author: Dcconnoisseur

I struggle with the idea of love a lot... Love as it is, love as it could be, and love as it ought to be. How one keeps loving someone even after they have been hurt; how being hurt doesn't automatically take away the love; If that happened, life would be a lot easier. I… Continue reading Love, Trust and Betrayal

Waiting as an aesthetic experience by Adeoluwa oluwajoba. Can I tell you a story about a time in my life when love was mesmerizing? Can I tell you of fantasy and collage of aestheic memories? Just one story about my valentine... My Valentine is an artist. Slender, somewhere between 5'9 and 5'10, afrocentric, cute smile,… Continue reading DEOLU

In the warmness of friendship did I find you. The nostalgia and camaraderie. Did we find love? The kind that cannot be expressed or felt because it is etched deep in the journey. This companionship brings so much contentment, a feeling of never having to be alone even as we traipse this lonely world. Even… Continue reading TOLUWANI (God’s own)

Image from Pinterest Let me start by saying: love does not have a twin! If it doesn't look like love, it is not love. Now that I've gotten that out of the way, I can speak easy😂. First of, Introduction: I am not a preacher of love, I am an.... ok let me be serious.… Continue reading WHAT LOVE LOOKS LIKE

It's 2022, and like every other new year, there are resolutions flying around mingled with the greeting Happy New Year! For some reason, it is like we blinked from 2019, Covid happened and voila! We are in 2022. It feels so surreal because for most, life has been about redefining work, family, health, and relationships.I… Continue reading New Year, New Me?

How do you even do it? Yes, you. How do you settle for less? He promises himself physically but not his life. His purse but not his heart.

Hey, it's me again guys. Of course, you know me on this lane. Don't pretend you don't🙄. Remember the last time I waved at self sabotage and had a party with self pity? Well, yeah, it wasn't my best moment but er... it happened and here we are today on another episode on self depreciation.… Continue reading SELF DEPRECIATION

I am only human... I can't be expected to live right I am only human I can't be expected to be perfect Everyone has a skeleton in their cupboard... No one is a saint. I am only human... Don't you know men are wired to cheat? Women cheat too...nobody is pure. Where was this clause… Continue reading I AM ONLY HUMAN

I watch from afar. I am the stranger behind the screen watching their love story on the gram. They look so happy. #Godwhen. Then I see other stories, the rants, the lies, and betrayal.I don't even get a moment to process the happiness I just scrolled past. The very next post is about a crumbling… Continue reading NUPTIAL BLISS?

If you remember the popular song on Instagram or tik tok... LEAVE ME ALONE, PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE (repeat). I resonate with it a lot, but not in the comic sense that it presents in those videos. It is with heavy heart I type this... I am female and some things happen to me by… Continue reading LEAVE ME ALONE!!!